Friday, May 19, 2017

#273- My last email to an upstairs neighbor


After I watched abc TV 20/20 CATFISH episode (Hooking a Catfish) “How this Canadian woman catfished an NBA star and an aspiring model, almost ruining their lives” (http://abcnews.go.com/US/canadian-woman-catfished-nba-star-aspiring-model-ruining/story?id=46778331) , I totally understood about how my upstairs neighbor (woman) is thinking…
 

These sick women are boring about their lives and they want to make other people miserable like them.

 
 
As I wrote my blog post on April 19, 2017, I’m having a trouble with an upstairs neighbor… I was very angry but lately I feel sorry for her… she is a lonely woman (she only goes out two hours per week for grocery shopping, she doesn’t have any visitors, she is similar to that Canadian woman) and she wants someone’s attention to make her life excite and fun (in this case “evil fun”)…
 


For me no matter what, I’m always happy… I appreciate my life…

 

















Today after I saw this upstairs woman was walking around my home and peeking my home (where I sit or what am I doing) again… I thought I needed to write this post and save it for later if something happens to me, police can read this post.
 
 
First of all, I love my apartment building owner (husband & wife), they are very kind people. They know how I’m suffering with an upstairs neighbor, and I understand that they are not able to tell what to do to her.




 















This neighbor has been harassing me with her loud squeezing footsteps noise and some other noise all day since Feb 2016, especially in the midnight to wake me up every night (three times per night).
 


She said, “the noises coming from the building (not me)”, but she is making squeezing noise on purpose. She keeps stepping insist on the spots where make noise every 10-15 minutes everywhere (especially where I sit or sleep, above my bed, my couch, my desk, dining table, my toilet etc.)

 
I’m a freelance writer and I work at home, so this issue is making big trouble for my work (I wear earplugs and play low volume of classic music to reduce her harassment noise and make my peace feeling).  When I go to bed around 10:00-11:00pm, she comes to the bedroom and stepping on the floor loud for 10 minutes above my head at 11:15pm, 12:15am and 1:15am every night. I wake up each time even though I have earplugs on…

 
Could you imagine, someone wakes you up every night three times? Sometimes I'm not able to go back to sleep until 4:00am… this is not good for my health…
 
 
When I watch TV (with very low volume) , she knows where I sit, so she is stepping on the floor and makes squeezing noise for every 5-10 minutes for whole my TV time… When I sit at my desk for work during the day, she keeps coming back above me (I have a desk in my living room) and stepping on the floor all day… Very crazy woman…
 

I recorded those noises into video (by iPhone) [which police gave me this advice] and I have sent it to the apartment building owner last year.
 

Last year twice I called police to help but her harassment got worse, I’m wondering if she has a mental illness and I’m worry about my safety… if she does something bad to me… because I smell strange chemical smell above my dining table or in my living room sometimes from upstairs … (I hope she is not pouring some poison to me…) … Very scary woman…
 

By the way, this noise issue is not only for the harassment issue, she is making damage to the floor (she keeps stepping on the weak spots of floor)… I feel sorry for this building…

 
 
So I wrote a last email to this neighbor the other day.
 
 

----- Forwarded Message -----
From: YOKO FUJIMOTO <***>
To: ROSE ALBANO <***>
Bcc: My best friend
Sent:
Monday, May 15, 2017 6:42 PM
Subject: Dear Rose from Yoko

 
Dear Rose,
 
 
This is my last email to you.
 
 
Please remember, happiness is coming from yourself (your good attitude for yourself and other people around you, including neighbors). 

 
Nobody will make you happy until you make happiness by yourself.
 
 

If you want to feel happy, you need to stop your footsteps harassment for me (if you stop your loud footsteps harassment, I don't need to play music all the time to avoid your noise).
 
You told me you are miserable...Do you know why? Your action will go back to yourself... you are hurting yourself and making miserable life by yourself. Please be kind to yourself.
 
I am very sad to see you... you are hurting yourself... not to me...
 
 
For me, I am always happy no matter what, because I am making my happiness with clean home & flowers, with lovely music, with my work (writing), with friends and family, with delicious food etc...

 
I hope you can find your happiness soon.
 
 
I am wishing your happiness.
 
Again, good luck to you : )

 
 
Best,
Yoko
 
 
***
 




I’m still wishing her happiness… I still believe that all human beings have a good heart in deep in their heart.
 

Life is always beautiful no matter what.
 
 




Yoko Fujimoto
Writer
Los Angeles
May 19, 2017









Copyright © 2017 Yoko Fujimoto 

Tuesday, May 2, 2017

#272- Happy employees make happy customers


As you know many department stores (in U.S. and Japan both) are struggling these days due to consumer’s life style (online shopping, cheap fast fashion stores and discount stores).

 

In general people want to have a convenience life style and want to purchase reasonable price products.

 






Last October when I bought gift items (for myself and friend who visited this store together) at RAINS in Ojai, I was very surprised by that RAINS has a complimentary wrapping service (all Japanese department stores have a complimentary wrapping service in Japan). I was smiling on the way back to my home after I shopped at RAINS.

 







This spring when I heard about some Japanese department stores in country side are closing business and their towns became like a ghost town, I thought I want to find out why RAINS is doing well, and I wanted to inform some great news about RAINS to Japanese readers who are struggling in their business.

 

I’m glad that I did it. I met a wonderful CEO of RAINS (Mr. Alan Rains) and found out why RAINS is doing well.


 

1: Mr. Alan Rains is a very kind person.

2: Employees are very cheerful.

3: Many unique products.

4: Reasonable price.

5: Clean and bright inside.

 



I interviewed Alan and wrote an article for Senken-Shimbun (major Japanese fashion business newspaper in Japan) and the article came out on May 1, 2017.

 

Lately I stopped translate my materials (newspaper & magazine articles and TV program segment) into English from Japanese in written on paper (my complimentary service for people who I interviewed with. I still do it on the phone to people who gave me their time & info for my work), but I wanted to translate the article into English from Japanese in written on this blog for Alan, RAINS and people (who reads my blog to share the wonderful information about RAINS).

 

Here is my article into English from Japanese about RAINS. Enjoy!

 

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Senken-Shimbun

Published on May 1, 2017

 

By Yoko Fujimoto

Writer

 

“103 year-old small specialty department store ‘RAINS’ in U.S.”

 

“The key is ‘nothing waste for buying’ “

 



While some major department stores are struggling with competition with fast fashion business and online shopping business, there is a successful 103 year-old small specialty department store “RAINS” (2,2000 square feet) in Ojai, California, suburbs of Los Angeles. I interviewed CEO of RAINS, Mr. Alan Rains (86 years old) about the key to success.

 

“Go with needs of customers”

 

“(Business) started with a hardware store in 1914. At that time we also sold dynamites for construction. Once we sold electric appliances such as TVs and laundry machines. At this time our main products are clothing (women’s and men’s), kitchen goods (including food such as jam and sauce), hardware, interior goods, gardening supplies and gift goods. We have been changing our products and buying way due to an era and local customers’ needs and trend” he said.



 

They carry 10 men’s brands such as Patagonia, Tommy Bahama, WOOLRICH, Royal Robbins, Cool and Levi's, and women’s brands are around 100 such as Tribal, Royal Robbins, Bila. From casual wear to dressy, they have all styles.

 




They also have full accessories such as underwear, pajamas, hats, socks, shoes, sandals, ties and belts.              




RAINS has original goods such as T-shirts, caps, BBQ sauce, honey, soaps and mug cups.










One customer states about the impression of RAINS, “this store is very attractive because they sell many unique goods compare to the other store”.

 





“Create a town and coexistence”

 

He said “we are unable to sell a lot of products like major department stores or major chain stores. Our concept is about our customer’s taste. We only sell customer’s favorite products and unique style products”.

 

“Since we had opened our store, we are focusing on create good Ojai’s town and community. When I heard someone wanted to open stores of children’s and textile, I volunteered to help them and supplied our inventories for their stores. It’s about living together, it’s important that we are not competing with each other, we are creating our town and community in Ojai together” he emphasized.

 

Regarding the bad condition of major department stores in U.S. and Japan, “Business is not about the size, bigger not better. If we buy a lot of inventories and if we are not selling them, and then the business will go slow down” he pointed out.

 

“Until four years ago we went to Las Vegas and Los Angeles for buying products, but we are not going there anymore. We have limited products for customers, so we don’t need to see everything. It’s important to save our time and expense. Our products’ brands direct visit our office and bring their samples, this helps us. We need to change our way for buying” he said.

 

“Employees are happy, and then customers are happy”

 

Main customers are local residents (40-60 year-old) who are farmers, artists who moved from somewhere in U.S. and tourists who enjoy spa & hiking. “As I said, our products are not for everyone, we focus on products for our customers’ needs and trend. This is very important thing to choose our products. We are not the high-end department store like Neiman Marcus and we are not the discount store like Target. Our store sells good quality and good material products with reasonable price point” he talked.

 

Busy months with many customers are from April to August, but most good sales months are from October to December for three months. We are not going to announce our sales number, but I inform the daily sales number to my employees with our sales goal, and this boosts our employees’ morale.

 

There are 20 employees. Some employees have been working 30 years to 50 years. “One time we offered the discount service for customers with stamps, but the profit was not good. Instead of that I am focusing on my employees’ good salaries with my hardship. If employees are happy, and then customers are happy. I believe in this” he revealed.

 

On the other hand, they have been providing a complementary wrapping service of gifts for customer’s convenience since 30 years ago.


“Lately customers’ most important thing is saving time than saving money.”  So they are focus on the needs, they are able to deliver products for customers who are not able to come to the store. They also deliver products to tourist customers who are trouble to carrying stuff for walking around to their hotel.

 

About future plans, he said “in 2000 we opened online shop, but we fell the investment. We re-opened our online shop three years ago, and our online sales are 2% of our total sales. We would like to work on social media to reach out to new customers to make differentiation from major online companies such as Amazon”.

 

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Did you enjoy my article about RAINS? I hope you did.

 

Mr. Alan Rains treated me to lunch after our interview, he is a very kind person. After our interview when we were leaving for lunch, Alan asked me “do you need to go to the restroom?”  Yes, he knows what people want right away. And I liked the kind message on the wall in the restroom (please find out what the sign says by your own eyes!), RAINS knows what people need and want. Very kind CEO and employees, of course this store is doing well (customers are happy to shop here).

 

When you are in Ojai please visit RAINS (https://www.rainsofojai.com/), you will understand what I’m saying.

“Happy employees make happy customers”.

 



P.S. I bought these after the interview Alan. The card is for my mom's Mother's Day card, honey and light bulbs for my bedroom ceiling fan which better quality than CVS's ones ; )






















Yoko Fujimoto

Writer

Los Angeles

May 2, 2017

Copyright © 2017 Yoko Fujimoto 

 


Wednesday, April 19, 2017

#271-Why people fight?



Why do human beings keep fighting with each other or fighting wars?


About profit?


About  territory?


About religion?


About ethnicity?


About statism?


About collectivism?


 


Why can’t we talk instead of fight (war)?


People are trying to change others…


People don’t want to change for others…


People think “I am right, you are wrong”…


 


I was thinking about “how can we resolve issues of terrorism and war in this world, can we talk instead of fighting?”


 


And then I realized “I need to think about my issue first” (since I moved into my apartment in Montrose one year ago)… yes, I have an issue about my living situation… my upstairs neighbor (64 years old woman who is not working) has been waking me up every night (around 11:15pm, 12:15am and 1:15am) with loud squeezing footsteps (it sounds not normal & regular footsteps) for one year… I had to call police twice, and I fought with this neighbor twice…


 


I tried to go to bed at the same time when this neighbor goes to bed… it doesn’t work (for me late night energy is very negative… I like positive energy in the early morning… The early bird catches the worm, right?)...


 


And then I tried to reduce her noise with classic music or wearing earplugs…but I still could hear her noise and sometimes I am not able to go back to sleep…


 


One time I wished her to disappear… Oh no… this is very negative thought… bad, bad, bad… this is not me…


 


Since I became a membership at Descanso Gardens… I walk, meditate and read at this peaceful place, and I realized that “I should change my thoughts about my upstairs neighbor”… yes, I realized that “I need to wish her happiness instead of hate her noise”.


 


Lately I have been wishing her happiness… no matter what happens… I will be ok…I need to remind myself about why I live here… because I want to have a nice rose garden view with my eye level from my living room and bedroom, and I want to have a nice mountain view from my kitchen, dining room and bathroom.


 


Life is beautiful no matter what… I believe in Karma. I would like to keep to see beautiful thing and to think beautifully. I would like to keep to be with good people and be kind to people. I think these make us happy and bring happiness.


 


Regarding the North Korea issue… I wrote a tweet today to President Donald J.Trump.


 


“Dear President Donald J.Trump, I respect that you are a great negotiator. Would you send FOOD(love) instead of MISSILE(hate) to North Korea?”


 


We are all same human beings, I believe in human beings. Everyone has a good heart, so we can talk and we can get along each other. Do you agree?


 




By Yoko Fujimoto


Writer


Los Angeles


April 19, 2017


Copyright © 2017 Yoko Fujimoto 











Thursday, January 19, 2017

#270-Happy New Year 2017!



 

Happy…


I had a happy & wonderful one month winter vacation in Japan. My mom and younger brother treated me well at home in Tokyo and we took a trip to Hokkaido and we had a nice new year’s day short trip to Asakusa,Tokyo. We ate, ate, ate, chat, chat, chat and laugh, laugh, laugh. I am very happy to have such a sweet family. Now I am very happy to work for a next vacation.

 

New…


I love new things…new calendar, new diary, new slippers, new soap, new toothbrush…and a new year 2017. I will do my best for everything in 2017.

 

Year…


2017 is a Rooster year. Feng Shui lucky colors of 2017 are gold, silver and blue.





Happy New Year to you!

 

 

By Yoko Fujimoto
Writer
Los Angeles
January 19, 2017
Copyright © 2017 Yoko Fujimoto