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#209- What do you care?

The other day, I had a small talk with a Japanese woman on my Japanese Twitter page.

#1- The Japanese woman: The history recognition is different by the government of the country, so even though I talk with an American about the war, we can’t understand each other. The American is educated by the U.S. government for their good.

#2- My reply to her comment: You are right. Regarding the history recognition, each country people is educated by own country’s government for their good. U.S. and Japan are the same. We don’t need to discuss “which country is right or wrong” about the war, because war is wrong anyway.

#3- The Japanese woman: Regarding the attack on Pearl Harbor, if I say “American government let Japanese military attacked it, because they wanted to try to use atomic bombs”, American is not going to believe what I say, right? So we don’t need to waste our time to talk to each other.

#4- My reply to her comment: People were crazy during the war, because people were trying to protect their loved ones. That’s why we don’t need to waste our time to discuss “which country is right or wrong” about the war. War is wrong, anyway.

#5- The Japanese woman: Even though some foreigners say “we will help Japan and Japanese people”, we feel meddlesome, intervention in domestic affairs and annoying. Because we are different in culture, the history and a way of thinking.

#6- My reply to her comment: I really understand how much you really care for Japan. I left Japan 25 years ago, but my thought for my home country Japan is same as yours. People are different in culture, the history and a way of thinking, but we are connected to each other on this world & universe. Let’s make peace for Japan and the world together.

 
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Even though we (this Japanese woman and me) are the same people, we misunderstand each other.

And even though we are different, I believe that we will understand each other after long talk.

Sometimes we feel like “life is unfair” …as you know what happened in Boston (Boston Marathon explosions on Monday) or in Texas (explosion in Texas tonight)…

Sometimes people says, “Why me?” “Why us?”…

When I have a trouble, I always try to find “what is the reason?” or “what is the cause?”. Because the problem is not made by the one person (or the one way).

I don’t care what other people think of me, but I care about how other people feel.


How about you?  What do you care?

Wishing you all the happiness in the world. Love + Peace = Happiness

 
By Yoko Fujimoto
Los Angeles April 17, 2013
Copyright © 2013 Yoko Fujimoto

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東日本大震災(東北地方太平洋沖地震)被災者および日本の皆様へ

このたびの東日本大震災(東北地方太平洋沖地震)により被災されたすべての方々に心からお見舞い申し上げます。そして、犠牲になられた方々とご遺族の皆様に、深くお悔やみを申し上げます。

日本にいらっしゃる皆様、どうかご無事で、早く、安心出来る暮らし、笑顔が戻ってきますように、心からお祈り申し上げます。


*** 米国でも多くの人が心を痛めており、皆様のご無事を願っています

東北・関東地方で起った大震災に心を痛めながら、私は、「米国在住のライターの私に、日本の皆様のために出来ることをしたい」と、こちらで流れるテレビニュースの画面を見つめながら、ずっと考えていました。

そうしていましたら、本日(ロサンゼルス:3月18日/日本:3月19日)、仕事でお付き合いのある茨城県在住の女性(実際にお会いしたことはありません)から、「テレビでも、世界各国からの応援メッセージをもっと放送して欲しい」とメールをいただきました。

早速、私が報道の仕事で関わっている日本のテレビ局、ラジオ局の幹部、報道記者の方々へ、この女性のメッセージを届け、放送に関してのお願いメールを送信致しました。


*** 米国在住の私に出来ることを考えてみました

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